Said the suicide

Some of the recent time, suicide seems to be a popular topic, some even jump, foxconn became a national concern. Some days ago, the central television station "psychological interview" column is also made a suicide topic of programs, disclosure someone suicide pact, shocking. Recently, one of my friends told me he experiences in a suicide event, a 13 year old teenager killed the flower jump off a building, let a person) legend. Why want to commit suicide? Why will have to commit suicide? I think, nothing more than two answers, one is that he has lost something, love may cause...... That make life lost meaning. 2 it is the lack of understanding of the right to life and death..louis vuitton damier azur canvas hampstead pm bag for sale
Remember there is such a story. A woman because be husband left, beloved children and died of illness, think life has no meaning, jump river, be a monk suicide rescued. The monk asked her: you why suicide? The woman said, her husband abandoned me, the child was dead, life still have what meaning, dead. The monk asked her: ten years ago you have children? The woman answered and said, I was not married yet, which come children? The monk continue to ask: that you then happy? The woman replied, "I'm very happy. The monk said: you ten years ago, no husband and children, you very happy. Now you are not going to ten years ago it, what not happy? The woman smell speech, is suddenly enlighted, happy, no longer killing myself.
Will tell from life, you lose, achievements have with poor have rich, have fine have rain...... This is very normal. If the I ching said, there are Yin Yang. Don't need too care about. And the law of life is often the most dark time so: light will now, is the time. Not is have a proverb, said, now that winter has come, can spring be far behind? We bite the bullet and quite a moment, may is a sunny days. Zeng guofan have famous saying well said: "a dozen teeth, and take off the blood swallowing." He has this classic called "quite the" speak, this is probably motif. Furthermore, life is not a single, is rich. Not only have love, and love; Need not only wealth, need more responsibility; ...... When we lose love, perhaps may see the harvest of career. Western proverb says: for the Lord closes a door, will open a window for you. China also has the old saying says, loss is another man's gain. If know the meaning, when you meet a difficult matter, think life without meaning, maybe you'll positive, optimistic face it, accept it and deal with it, put down it.
Need to explain, children of the causes of suicide, is our education and social education of family failure. In the eyes of many parents and teachers, children's performance is everything. Well, a good cover ugly. Bad grades, the child it is finished, a waste. I think, the child's education, is not only the knowledge education, have more need of personality education. Achievement just the problem of details. Di zi GUI opening is not so speak? : disciple laws, and saint training. The first filial piety, times and relationships between adults letter. The love, and close all the kernel. Spare capacity, is increasing. A child's education, first is the education, family relationships for parents to filial piety, the brothers and sisters to relationships between adults; Second, is the social education, speak good faith, to care about others. If these are ready, say learning knowledge. We now of education opposite, personality education, but said never learn, said results. The so-called "test, test, examination, the teacher resort; points, points, points, students (parent) MingGen of." Some children's suicide, the murderer often are parents and teachers. These words seemed to some absolute. But consider and cause children, often have the pressure of the suicide from parents and teachers of manufacturing and transmission.
Now say, the concept of the life and death. In the traditional culture of our country, to death, not afraid. Life and death as DanMu, as of the day and the night is same, it is not terrible, it is to point to the natural death. But choose death, must be the initiative to establish in noble moral basis. Such as Confucian speak, achieve virtue, the image. Buddhist speak, for the law the hindquarters forget. The initiative to death, must be to benevolence, righteousness, in order to method for these noble moral goals and value pursuit. At the same time, traditional culture is against suicide. The Confucian speak, the body hair skin, gives the parents, dare not damage. As children, even the body hair skin can damage, how much more will commit suicide? And, the Confucian still speak the son, not in crisis under the wall. This means that, a exquisite filial piety, is not able to do, even if it is dangerous thing standing in the walls, also is not allowed. In buddhist view, life is bitter, like go to prison. If a man kill himself, like a was sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of criminals, escape, will be affected by the more stringent sanctions. Taoist stressed, to live forever, is way more do not advocate of suicide
louis vuitton damier ket holder bag for sale Life is colorful, rich, bright. Is there any reason to be suicide? As the saying goes: dog is better than a dead lion alive. Stay where, not sorrow no wood to burn it.
Let the world is suffering to me! May all beings can might remain, safe and good luck!